First dance etiquette for weddings is timeless. We live in an era where some couples go to great lengths to choreograph high energy productions for their first dance. YouTube is full of them, like the one below:
Let’s face it, this approach isn’t for everyone. Here’s the good news: you DON’T need an exotic production. You can stick to the basics. Many, probably MOST, of the readers of this blog are breathing a big sigh of relief over that last sentence. After all, a lot of people are not impressed with their own dancing abilities, and they are pretty shy about having the entire spotlight on them.
You have nothing to worry about! We’ve posted a very nice video below which gives you a quick and easy tutorial on how to dance the good ol’ box step. Even if you’ve got two left feet, the box step is within your reach. Watch this, see what I mean:
For more extensive dance instruction right here in Cookeville, we highly recommend Piper Landis. Check out her website here.
First dance etiquette: the basics
Here is the timeless first dance etiquette Scott Stevens Entertainment uses for Cookeville weddings:
√ We introduce you and your wedding party with flair.
√ Bride and groom enjoy their first dance together as husband and wife.
√ Next, the father and bride dance and the mother and son dance.
At this point, etiquette becomes more flexible depending on your tastes and the length of your reception. We’ll review your options in the planning process to be sure all additional special dances and announcements are perfectly timed and MCed.
In the meantime, if you’re a little shy about your first dance, spend some time with the video above practicing a very user-friendly dance step. And then be sure to check out an earlier blogpost, “Top Ten Classic Songs for your First Dance.”
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