Cake smashing ruins wedding

November 6, 2023

Did you see the recent news article about cake smashing? You know what cake-smashing is, when the newly married couple smashes a piece of cake into each other’s faces during the cake cutting.

A recent, nameless bride went on Reddit to rant about this awful tradition.

It seems she had told her betrothed in no uncertain terms NOT to smash cake into her face. She wrote:

“I told him if he ever did something like that to me I’d leave him. He started laughing but I was being for real.”

Then he went ahead and did it at the wedding. What happened?

“This was supposed to be the happiest day of our lives and he embarrassed me in front of everyone for some prank that he knew I hated. Not only that, he ruined a 500 dollar cake. He ruined my makeup, my hair and the top of my dress. The cake got all over.”

She was so upset, she left the wedding and didn’t return.

Reddit users overwhelmingly leapt to her defense, as she received 31,200 upvotes, accompanied with comments like these:

“I think stunts like that are annulment-worthy, but that’s just me.”

“This isn’t just a cake or a prank, this is flat out disrespect.”

“He had one job and it was don’t smash a cake in his fiancée’s face.”

YouTube is full of smash-caking incidents. It’s not a pretty sight.  And as the commentator in the video above suggests, people can … and have gotten injured.

Even more, it gets some marriages off on the wrong foot. As the commentator above puts it, it’s a bad omen of things to come.

This is a lousy tradition. Our humble advice: you don’t need it. We’ll provide all the fun and entertainment your Cookeville wedding needs without messing up your make-up, hair, and clothes! Check out our availability without obligation.

Best Ella Langley love song for weddings

June 1, 2026

  Ella Langley is one of the hottest country stars around. The 27 year old singer took home a bunch of trophies at this year’s Country Music Awards, including: Female Artist of the Year Song of the Year Single of the Year In all, she’s won a dozen awards from the Academy of Country Music…

“Did you hear the one about … ?”

May 4, 2026

  The comedian above, Drew Thomas, has a funny wedding joke on how men and women react differently to the news of a wedding engagement.  When women hear the news, it’s a happy occasion. But the way men tell it, the news is like something he’s been diagnosed with. Listen to his bit. Very funny…

The song that never goes away

April 8, 2026

You know a song is good when it’s featured in a movie half a century after it was written. Neil Diamond’s “I’m a Believer” is such a song. Written in 1966 for the pop rock band, The Monkees (above), it immediately shot to #1 on the charts. Fifty years later, you’ll hear it sung by…

How long should your engagement last?

March 2, 2026

The question is, does the length of a courtship and the length of an engagement have any affect on the future success of a marriage? A Reddit marriage thread triggered the question. The thread posed the question: “People who divorced after only one year, what happened?” A man responded: “I was married for less than…

Do you have to invite shower attendees to your wedding?

February 2, 2026

What is wedding shower etiquette when it comes to planning your wedding guest list? Do you HAVE to invite someone to your wedding IF you invited them to a wedding shower? The Knot consulted with a variety of wedding etiquette experts who acknowledge that as a rule of thumb, this is rude. They write: ”Those…

“Ordinary” is no ordinary love song

January 5, 2026

You would’ve never heard the song, “Ordinary,” if its composer didn’t believe in it. Songwriter Alex Warren admits the song was an accident. He said, “We didn’t write it to be a hit, we didn’t mean to write it to be anything more than just a love song.” But it found a huge audience despite…

7 signs that you’re in love

December 1, 2025

What makes marriage great? Commitment. What’s scary about marriage? Commitment. The reason married people are happier, healthier, live longer, are wealthier, and have happier and healthier children is built upon a foundation of commitment. And commitment isn’t scary when it’s made out of love. So what is love? And how do you know if you’re…

Top selling music artists in history, Part 5

November 3, 2025

  The top selling music artists in history are: The Beatles Michael Jackson Elvis Presley Elton John Queen Madonna Led Zeppelin Rihanna Pink Floyd This month’s entrant is Queen, a legendary band that saw its fame get a boost with the 2018 biopic, “Bohemian Rhapsody.” Queen generates more weekly visitors to Spotify than any of…

Top selling music artists in history, Part 4

October 6, 2025

The top selling music artists in history are: The Beatles Michael Jackson Elvis Presley Elton John Queen Madonna Led Zeppelin Rihanna Pink Floyd We continue the series considering the best wedding songs from the list of musical greats. This week we look at the best Elton John wedding songs. Elton may be #4 on this…

Top selling music artists in history, Part 3

September 1, 2025

The top selling music artists in history are: The Beatles Michael Jackson Elvis Presley Elton John Queen Madonna Led Zeppelin Rihanna Pink Floyd This series considers the best wedding songs from the list of musical greats. This week we look at the best Elvis Presley wedding songs. No artist on this list recorded more quality…